Ladies. I know you see it.
I KNOW you've noticed. You know what time is it.
Just like men have their "Sundress Season" excitement, we have our "Gray Sweatpants Season."
To me, this is not only the most wonderful time of the year (wink), but it is also common knowledge. 'Tis the season right?
Please don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about. I know people usually call this "Sweatpants Season", but I think it's important to point out what color is prevalent among these here photos we see!
For years, men have anticipated the summertime, where a flowing sundress accentuates every part of a woman's body. So why can't we notice and appreciation when a man's body is being accentuated?
I was told by a man that it was wrong for us women to even be looking at the print of a man in gray sweatpants. His argument is that women do not like to be objectified or glared at by the choice of clothing they choose to wear. While I don't entirely disagree with what he's saying, I do see his point. I've heard women complain about men staring at their bodies, and it's usually because they have their own insecurities that they are working on with it. I know women who love wearing sundresses because they love the attention they receive. I think men are no different. Some men hate that they are judged by the print of clothing they choose to wear for comfort. Some men love that they have a good print in their sweatpants. They know it can attract a woman in a way that verbal sexual advances can't.
I find it interesting that some men tend to be completely insecure about what women think of them in sweatpants. These same men either bash women if they don't have the perfect figure, or they can't understand why women have their own body insecurities. When I asked a male about this he explained it in a way that I guess I can kind of understand. Women can work on their bodies and change its shape overtime. The print is something that can't be changed with exercise and a good diet. Of course there are cosmetic enhancements that can be made to any body, but for the most part, men don't believe in getting it done, and if it has been done, they are not vocal about it.
It's easy to say you don't objectify one sex or the other, but I think it is something we all do. Let's not take life so seriously! Enjoy the beauty of one another's bodies. Compliment each other! Enjoy the season, whichever it may be!
Ladies, ask yourself. How many thirst traps have you seen of men in grey sweatpants since summer ended? How many of these same pics ended up in your DMs?
I too, have been a victim of the salacious images of men in grey sweatpants. Do I mind it?
Not at all.